Sunday, 2 September 2018

Big boy

My little seven years and one month-old boy, you walked 7 miles today with me and your mum on the first section of the Capital Ring, which we said we would walk the whole of before you turn 8. It's not the furthest you've walked; we did the Chess Valley walk a few weeks ago and a mistake by yours truly meant that we did 11 rather than the planned 10 miles. You never complained once, though you slept well that night. Hopefully, you will tonight too.

I haven't written about you here for two years. That's unforgivable. You have brought so much joy to our lives in that time and there have been so many wonderful moments. Who are you now? What do you like? What have you done in two years?

You have been an inspirational son. You are loving, funny and so bright. You are good-natured, sensitive and generous. Every day I feel so happy to be your dad and I want to spend as much time with you as I can. I look forward to weekends so much, and loved our two weeks together during your summer holidays (we went to Portsmouth (saw The Mary Rose), the Tower of London, Nanny and Grandad's (and saw your first Shakespeare - The Tempest - at Kenilworth Castle), did the walk mentioned above and one from Hammersmith to Kew (taking in Chiswick House and Kew Palace), Oxford, Stonehenge, Bristol and I joined you for the long weekend in Dover (we went to the castle twice). I have seen and done so many new things because your curiosity and interest have led us there.

You have been playing the piano for two years and now you are SO good. There was a school music evening towards the end of Year 2 a couple of months ago, and your classmates played lovely notes on their violins and cellos. There was some cute singing too. Then, headlining, you played. You started with what you knew of "Avalanche", then played a little ditty you had written, next was "Sound of Silence" and finally you played "Yellow Submarine", and everyone sang along with the lyrics I'd brought in. We were so proud and had to try not to show just how much. You're one of the youngest in your year but the most amazing in the school.

You still love reading. You've gone through Horrid Henry and Jeremy Strong books and currently love rereading Tom Gates and Diary of a Wimpy Kid. You read all the Harry Potter half a year ago or more. I have been trying to move you into older books. We bought you a Michael Morpugo box set and you have got into the Ruby Redfort box set your friend Michael (and his mum Lili) bought you. Over the next 6 months, I hope you will read the Belgariad set that were recommended and that I bought for your birthday as a present from Idris and Isbah, who gave me the money.

You have an interest in art, and especially street art. We went to see the Banksy in Dover, but you know so much more than that and have met several artists and even swapped stickers with them. You have created hand-painted (with posca pens) works of art on egg shell stickers and a slogan you came up with ("Rot Your Heart") and put them out all over London and beyond - indeed they have gone international. We love going to see street art and especially enjoy hunting the lovely coins put out by an art duo we have met on a few occasions called "Quiet British Accent". Their work has inspired you and we have done many a treasure hunt for paper "coins" you have created and hidden in the flat and beyond (in the building and courtyard). I have a little box with hundreds of them that I have hunted for and found. We have bought postcards at galleries we have been to and used them to get you to remember the artists and the names of the works. Again, this has led to a massive explosion in my own knowledge of and ability to recognise the style of artists.

We call you Numberhead. You're a fantastic little mathematician, at the top of your school for this too. I hope that in your teens you will go down the maths/science/engineering route but your interest in architecture and design are also promising. You did a year of "Archimake" at school and a week at the beginning of the summer of going around London hearing about buildings and sketching them. I have added (a so far limited) knowledge of architects and designers to my repertoire, again inspired by your interest, your questions and a desire to help you remember and develop this knowledge.

You have been playing chess for since you were three. You have been playing online for about three years and now you occasionally beat me. You love the game (and others, such as Catan). We went to a new chess club at St Pancras library on Friday and you played and beat 3 adults. Your mum and I are talking how to develop this interest and skill you have. There's a club in Swiss Cottage we are considering.

You now go to karate every Monday night. It's been just over a year and you enjoy going, along with your friend Frank. You have both done really well, double-grading once and then triple-grading at the most recent event. You have practised hard at home (as you have with the piano and chess) and take pride in getting your moves right. You've showed more interest in playing football recently. We still ice-skate but not as often. We had classes for the best part of two years. Your mum fell and broke her knee in 7 places at one of our lessons. You skate backwards and do jumps, still. You have been on a few long cycle rides, doing about 20 miles earlier this year in a ride to Marylebone then from Princes Risborough to Waddesdon and on to the nearest station.

I think you are a sweet and innocent boy. It helps that you are in the first intake of your school. This means that there is no older year than yours and also that most of the children in your year do not have an older sibling (if they did, they would tend to go to that sibling's school). As a consequence, there's a sweetness and innocence around your year that maybe not all 7 y.o. children would have. However, this evening, after we got home. You asked me - not for the first time - about Santa. I've dodged it before but couldn't tonight. You'd had your suspicions so telling you that we can all be Father Christmas and surprise someone was mostly lost on you. You were just seeking confirmation that "he doesn't exist". You shoved the tooth fairy in too, stating that all you wondered was how we got under your pillow without you knowing it. Still, because of your first-hand experience in Ireland, where we went for a wedding in October 2017 (you put out a Rot Your Heart sticker there, too), you confirmed tonight that you do know that fairies exist.

Sunday, 8 May 2016

Learning, developing

This weekend there was a change. At the ice-skating with cousin K on Saturday, you skated all by yourself and better than  before, trying to go backwards and even doing a jump or three.
Then we went to Finsbury Park and you climbed to the top of the two climbing frames.
Today you swam well and then we had a roller-skating practice, at which, similarly to the ice-skating, a new confidence was apparent. Along with the football we played, this has been a great weekend for physical development and learning. Proud of you, son.


Thursday, 7 April 2016

Italy

We brought you to Italy for Easter. We spent 9 days in Rome, 4 in Florence and now 3 in Venice. You have learnt a little about the ancient Romans, a little more about Renaissance painters, something of Greek mythology and more about Christian mythology and you have been up and down the canals on water buses in Venice. You've had a ridiculous amount of ice-cream and have kept a diary/scrap-book of the days' happenings.

You've also become really into telling stories. Ostensibly, I am supposed to be telling most of them, but you take over and supply all the detail. Stories with themes like "under the surface" (digging tunnels and building cities), "under the sea" (seeing sea animals), "the show" (music, singing), "space story" (going round the solar system) and "dionsaur story" (from 'dinosaur cove', going back to one of the three dino eras) often have similarities: breaks in the activity for you to check if all your friends  need to go to the toilet, an impromptu party including food and games, bedtime and now chess moves. These stories can easily last an hour. You have never talked so much. It's lovely (and a little tiring).


Friday, 20 November 2015

Questions

From out  of the blue: "Daddy, why do some languages have similar pronunciation?" You are 4 years and 4 months old.

Tuesday, 8 September 2015

First day at school

The new school is open, although work is still going on, and some kids have been there for a few days. You went in and saw familiar faces and were perfectly happy. When we entered the classroom, first you got a pen and drew a picture, signing it, then you wrote "Welcome to King's Cross Academy" on a small chalk board. The head saw it and said he should have got you to do some signs since they had none for the front of the school. He didn't need to ask twice - but he didn't realise you'd take him at his word. You wrote a couple of signs on A4, then asked one of the staff - Christine - to give them to him. (He was gone.)
You had folded them up and she didn't know what they were. Luckily, he came back and you gave them to him yourself. Because you had written on the outside of the folded paper too, he thought they were small paper so had to be encouraged to open them up. When mummy and daddy left the building not long afterwards, they were already on the reception desk. When we picked you up, we got a snap of you and one of your signs. (You have history, with signs all over your nursery too.)

Thursday, 20 August 2015

Rock Trumps

We play games every day. Junior versions of Scrabble and Cluedo, Uno and more. You've enjoyed "top trumps" since we got our first pack - "toff trumps" a marketing gift from a company - and then I bought "wonders of the world", "London", "tallest buildings" and now we have about 15 or 20 packs. You asked about tree ones a while ago and I couldn't find any.


After we bought a 'modern artists' pack at the Tate, we made an individual card with you as an artist to go in it. Yesterday you suggested we should make a pack.

You have given me a little family business idea, son.

Monday, 20 July 2015

Party!



 
Your 4th birthday party was a success by any standard. It came a day after your 'graduation' from nursery on Friday 17th July.







Lots of your friends came - Lily, Pearl, Elliot, Michael and Sasha were all there - and your nanny, granddad, great aunt Rosemary, great uncles Mike and Redmond and cousin Kasey were there too.

We had a bouncy castle that you enjoyed and there were egg-and-spoon, sack, and beanbag races.






Your mum cooked lots of food and you helped me buy some food and drink at Sainsbury's bouncing all the way to the supermarket with excitement. I feared you were so excited that you'd crash and cry at some point but it never happened: you are generally so strong and happy. In turn it makes me so happy to have such a son.










The following day was a picnic with the opportunity to meet some of the other children, teachers, staff and parents from your new school, King's Cross Academy. We are very optimistic about the quality of the school and hope we have chosen well for you, son.